27 12 2016
According to some statistics, only 8% of people succeed at keeping their New Year’s resolutions. 66% give up before January is even over! So it’s clear that New Year’s resolutions don’t work – I’m sure this comes as no surprise to you!
The problem is the way we make our resolutions. We feel we’re not good enough we must improve (there’s a whole industry built on our need for ‘self-improvement‘ in other words us not being good enough the way we are. but that’s a rant for another day…), I must do this in order to be a better person because I’m not good enough as I am and only when I’ve achieved this, can I be happy.
So we set a goal, such as run 5k, and think that that goal alone should motivate us to get up and go running 3x a week for couple of months. It’s like we must be punished for being lazy slobs or just generally not good enough. No pain no gain and keep your eye on the prize, we say. This is awful torture. It might be the way we are used to doing things in our society but it doesn’t work and this is why we always fail and why most people feel they’re not good enough.
The key to success in anything is enjoying what you do.
Exercise because you love your body, because you love to move and love how it feels, not because you hate your body and need to be punish it.
Life is short and it is here and now, don’t waste it doing things you don’t enjoy.
Often you have to do things that don’t seem so enjoyable, like exercise, so then you have to challenge yourself to learn to enjoy it. With the right approach, you can learn to enjoy most things in life.
YOU GOAL THIS YEAR: Learn to enjoy exercise (bonus: get fit and healthy in the process)
If this seems impossible, then make it your mission for 2017 to test this – can I find a way to enjoy exercise? Is it really possible?
HOW TO ACHIEVE YOUR GOAL:
- Be in your body. When you move, breathe deeply and focus on your body. Get out of your head. How does your body feel? Most likely, it feels great to move. Notice how alive your body is, it’s strong and it’s able. Forget what it looks like. Try to stop your head from piping in with criticism and purely focus on how your body feels. Focusing on your body also helps you notice any niggles before they turn into injuries.
- Focus on the positive. Every time you’re out, in your head list 5 to 10 good things you notice around you. To really live in the moment and enjoy it, you need to be present to what’s around you. Again, get out of your head. Feel your body, look around you. See the beauty around you. See the sky, the trees, the flowers, birds, people…. Choose to focus on the good stuff around you and ignore everything else.
- Realise that your body (and mind) benefits from every single step you take. You do not have to wait until you can run 5k or until you’ve lost weight for your health to benefit from exercise (and eating healthy). Every time you go out and move, your body benefits. You can be healthy and fit while you’re still overweight as long as you move and eat well -just like you can be unhealthy and unfit when you’re at a healthy weight if you eat junk! We must stop focusing on weight as the only measure of health and fitness because it’s misleading. Enjoy this feeling every time you go out. Enjoy looking after yourself, treating your body with the respect it deserves. Be proud of yourself.
- Focus on the instant (or almost instant) benefits of exercise. Such as stress relief, mentally you’ll feel uplifted, you feel good about yourself, your immune system strengthens very fast after taking up exercising outdoors (as long s you don’t over train!), you feel more alive, you sleep SO much better, you have more energy, that nice tired feeling you get after exercise that tells you you’ve done something…. Make your own list. All you have to do is really tune in to your body, notice how it feels and notice how you feel mentally. Once you’ve started exercising, notice how these feelings change. Before you go out to exercise, notice how you feel and then after your session, pay attention how you feel now. Write these observations down. This is what is going to keep you going far more than reaching a goal such as a 5k or 10k or what the scales say.
- Make it easy. I mean REALLY easy, too easy, even, to start with. This is the absolute key if you’re a beginner. This can be hard to get in our results obsessed world but just remember that it’s not about the results, it’s about enjoying it here and now. There will come a time when you enjoy pushing yourself hard but don’t even think of going there until you’ve realised that moving your body can be fun and easy. Keep it to a level where you’re able to keep up a conversation easily and stop while you’re still finding it easy.
- Do something outdoors – walk, run, cycle, circuit training. Some people do enjoy the gym too but it is far easier to enjoy it outdoors, especially if you’re a beginner. Researchers have found that exercising outdoors is far better for mental health than indoors. Green spaces and fresh air do wonders for your mind and body and I love seeing what’s going on around me – I get bored in gyms and the atmosphere is far too serious. Yoga is the only exercise I enjoy doing indoors.
28 12 2014
Many people wonder why you need a ‘learn to run’ course and I guess I can see why you might think that if you’re a seasoned runner. Sometimes I wonder if there’d be a better term than a learn to run course for Running Made Easy because it is so much more. What people get out of it is not just fitness and learning how to run, in fact, that is not the most important outcome at all, they gain far more.
The majority of our participants are women who feel desperately unfit and unable to do any sports of exercise. They often feel that they are ‘bad’ at physical activities and might have tried many classes but failed to get fit. Many have also had some very negative experiences in various classes or activities. Most are absolutely petrified coming to their first class (but I guarantee they all leave feeling happy and good about themselves). Some of my private clients are so nervous coming to their first session with me that they actually get sick with nerves.
When I first started Run with Tina, I started with the idea of just getting people up and running, getting them to do their first 5k, kind of like the famous couch to 5k programme. This worked really well but quite soon I realized that there was so much more to this. People got SO much more out of it. My approach is different from traditional fitness classes. My main concern is that everyone feels good about themselves, absolutely everyone, must leave the class feeling good about themselves. This is the one thing I, or none of our instructors, would never ever compromise on.
I have joined various classes over the past few years but none come close to being as special as Run with Tina – a Running Made Easy participant‘
I noticed that because of this, through the 8 weeks that people spent with me, the transformation in them was so much bigger than just their fitness. Of course they got fitter in the process but the best thing was that they get more confident, happier, livelier, more positive… I could see they started walking taller, talking about more positive things, they’d get new jobs, dates, opportunities…. Previously stressed and insecure people started radiating happiness and confidence.
I originally wanted to do this course so that I would have a convenient way to lose weight and now I do, but what I never expected was how much it would seep into other areas of my life! I find myself more confident, more focused and definitely much calmer and happier than I was 8 weeks ago. – Heather
As I realised how this course could help people feel better about themselves in so many ways I developed some materials to support this (people get these through weekly emails, talks from their instructors or sometimes handouts). In 2015 it’s my mission to add to these materials as I really believe that this transformation, learning to be a bit happier with yourself, is the best thing you can get out of Running Made Easy, it is what makes our classes so popular and different to others and it is also what makes it easy for you to keep up your new lifestyle. I also believe that this is what women really need right now!
I have suffered from terrible anxiety for a long time. One the 19th August I began Running Made Easy Online. Today I had an MRI. I am terrified of MRIs. But thanks to my confidence that I have found through your programmes, I was able to go through with it. The work you do is fantastic. Not just for women’s physical health but for mental health as well. – Jo
This is why so many of our participants credit us for changing their lives (or starting them on that path) and why our courses are so popular. This is why I want to work hard to reach more and more women because knowing the difference my course makes in the lives of so many women is not only inspirational and motivating for me, but it also makes me feel like I have to keep on doing this, for those women.
Here’s to a good 2015 x
(you can find our 2015 schedule for classes in Dublin, London and online here)
09 10 2014
These are just some transformations I’ve observed in my Running Made Easy clients.
1. Strengthens your self-belief giving you courage to face other challenges.
If you’re like most people who don’t exercise, you are a bit scared of running, possibly terrified. You probably think you’d never be able to do it, it is scary. However, once you find the courage to take the first steps, get started, you will find that (with the right approach and support) you can do it – anyone can do it, there is no reason why you couldn’t do it – you’ll start realizing that many of your other fears are also unnecessary and you’ll be brave enough to face them, one small step at a time. You realise that you can achieve what ever you set your mind to!
2. Transforms your body
A lot of people want to start running in order to lose weight and yes, you will lose weight as long as you change your diet as well, but the true transformation is in how your body feels. Even if you don’t lose the weight, very soon after taking up running, your body will start feeling stronger, moving is becoming easier every day and you feel energized. There’s absolutely no better feeling that feeling strong, you’ll love it and you’ll love your new strong body, regardless of its size.
3. Improves your health
Exercise is essential for long term health and running is one of the best exercises for health, you only have to run a few times a week for 30 minutes (though you better start with a combo of walking and running) to get the benefits. Your risk of many serious diseases such as cancers, cardiovascular disease and osteoporosis is lowered and your immune system will strengthen which means you won’t be catching colds as easily.
4. Improves your mental health
Running releases endorphins, which means it makes you feel happy! If you’re feeling down, there’s nothing better than a little run outdoors (it has been proven that running outdoors, or even just walking outdoors, is much more beneficial to your mental health than exercising indoors). Running is also a great way to release stress and even let go of anger or other negative feelings.
5. Changes your outlook in life
Runners tend be very positive people. Maybe it’s because of the above – running is a great way of letting off some steam. It is hard to feel nothing but positive after a run! When you first take up running, you will really notice the effect on your general outlook in life. I’ve seen many people go from being stressed and negative, perhaps feeling stuck, to more laid back, positive people who look forward to the future.
6. Changes your whole lifestyle
One of the greatest things I’ve noticed with my beginners is that running opens a door to a whole new lifestyle. People might come to me wanting to just start exercising, start running, but very soon they become naturally interested making other lifestyle changes too, such as eating healthier, sleeping better, learning to handle stress better, cutting back on your drinking etc. Their focus also tends to shift from being purely focused on weight loss, to being more interested in being healthy and feeling good.
7. Enriches your social life
Through running, you’ll meet new people and make new friends. You might not want to do that right now, but very soon you’ll realize that you’re not the only beginner, there are hundreds of people like you and it is great to connect, whether it’s through social media or in real life, and share experiences and support each others. Very soon, you might want to meet your friend for a run rather than a pint!
8. You will have new found respect for yourself
Once you reach that goal, or even when you find the courage to take the first steps, you will be so proud of yourself! You have achieved something you never thought was possible and you’ve done it all by yourself – no one else can get those miles in for you. Reaching your target means that you have put the work in, you have been consistent and you have prioritized yourself, made some time for yourself and for that reason, you will feel extremely proud of yourself.
Our next Running Made Easy Online starts Monday 13th October – get up and get running now, you won’t regret it! And you can do it, I promise!